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		<title>The ADD hiker: an organized hike is a safe hike</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Nov 2009 16:45:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Addy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>A lot of people with ADHD find that they love being outside.  Personally, I feel like my ADD vanishes the minute I leave civilization.  I&#8217;m usually the first one to spot wildlife, catch birdsong, or to notice a change in the weather.  Maybe there&#8217;s something to that whole Hunter/Farmer thing.</p>
<p>However, heading outside can be also [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A lot of people with ADHD find that they love being outside.  Personally, I feel like my ADD vanishes the minute I leave civilization.  I&#8217;m usually the first one to spot wildlife, catch birdsong, or to notice a change in the weather.  Maybe there&#8217;s something to that whole Hunter/Farmer thing.</p>
<p>However, heading outside can be also be intimidating if you have ADD.  We forget things a lot, and when we&#8217;re packing to go out into the wilderness, that can be a scary prospect.  If you&#8217;re traveling to Paris and you forget your water bottle, you can buy another one.  If you&#8217;re traveling the John Muir Trail and you forget your water bottle, you might be toast.<span id="more-351"></span></p>
<p>Well, my buddy Deb Lauman, aka Ramkitten, has just the thing for you.</p>
<p>Ramkitten befriended me when I was brand-new to the communities over at Squidoo.com and Tagfoot.com.  It turned out she&#8217;s an avid hiker (as serious as I would like to be, but am not) and had recently visited my favorite place on earth, the Boundary Waters Canoe Area Wilderness.  She&#8217;s also a Search And Rescue volunteer.</p>
<p>Her SAR work made her realize how many rescue situations could be prevented if people set out with the proper equipment.  This led her to invent the <a href="http://www.24hourpack.com/">24-Hour Pack</a>.  It&#8217;s a day pack that comes pre-packed with all the supplies to get you through a night in the wilderness if you find yourself unexpectedly stranded.</p>
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</script></div><p>The keyword there is &#8220;unexpected&#8221;.  Nobody Ramkitten has ever rescued <em>expected</em> to be lost, hypothermic, dehydrated &#8212; or, in the most tragic cases, dead.   Fortunately, many of her missions end happily.  Deb <a href="http://debssarstories.blogspot.com/2009/10/tracks-i-see-tracks.html">blogs here</a> about why she never feels silly carrying her 24-Hour Pack, even when she&#8217;s only expecting to be gone for a 20 minute walk.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve got to admit, I&#8217;m not always as cautious as I should be, and I know better.   I&#8217;m an experienced backwoods canoe camper.  I&#8217;ve been a wilderness guide and a Girl Scout leader.  But I still take chances I shouldn&#8217;t.  Let&#8217;s be real; I have ADD.  I&#8217;m impulsive.  When I&#8217;m outside, I hate to sit still &#8230; which means I&#8217;m constantly fighting the inclination to head out farther and in worse weather than I really should.</p>
<p>Ramkitten&#8217;s writing has gotten me thinking deeply about the precautions I need to take next time I head out on a hike, even if it&#8217;s just up crowded Mt. Tam.  If you&#8217;re an ADHD hiker you should check out the following:</p>
<p><a href="http://www.squidoo.com/hikermistakes">Hikers: Common Mistakes to Avoid</a> If you think you know everything about hiking, you don&#8217;t.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.squidoo.com/24hrpack">The 24 Hour Pack: Hike Smart, Be Prepared, Be Safe</a> If you&#8217;ve already got a day pack or three, read this article about what to put in it to make your own 24 Hour Pack.</p>
<p><a href="http://www.squidoo.com/prepack">The PRE-Pack: A Pre-Equipped Day Pack for Hikers</a> New to hiking?  Lost your gear in a flash flood?  Let Deb do the work for you.  And remember to read Common Mistakes To Avoid before you head out!</p>
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		<title>Organizing An Entryway, Step 3: Sorting</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 04 Nov 2009 03:39:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Addy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>This is the third post in my Organizing an Entryway series.  I&#8217;m breaking it down into steps that are as small as possible to prevent ADD overwhelm.</p>
<p>Now that I can actually walk in my entryway, I&#8217;m ready for the third step of the process (and the first step of the SPACE process): sorting.</p>
<p>Sorting actually [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>This is the third post in my Organizing an Entryway series.  I&#8217;m breaking it down into steps that are as small as possible to prevent ADD overwhelm.</strong></p>
<p>Now that I can actually walk in my entryway, I&#8217;m ready for the third step of the process (and the first step of the SPACE process): sorting.</p>
<p>Sorting actually contains two smaller steps: the first is to empty EVERYTHING in the space you&#8217;re working in. Empty every shelf, every closet, every coat hook (in this case I left the bookshelf alone, since I know I&#8217;m getting rid of it and everything on it).  I spread some sheets on the living room floor so I&#8217;d have a nice big space to put everything I was working with:</p>
<div id="attachment_279" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 234px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-279" title="sortedpiles" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/sortedpiles-224x300.jpg" alt="Everything in the entryway.  Well, except the litter box." width="224" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Everything in the entryway.  Well, except the litter box.</p></div>
<p>As I emptied the entryway, I did some preliminary sorting; for instance, I made separate piles for clothing, hats, and hiking equipment.  Then I started sorting the clothes.  I hung all the dressy clothing up out of the way, and was left with a pile of outerwear.  I discovered that between me and my husband, we have four fleece vests, ten fleece jackets, and five raincoats.  That isn&#8217;t counting the one he&#8217;s is wearing on his business trip.</p>
<div id="attachment_283" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-283" title="bigpileofinsulatinglayers" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/bigpileofinsulatinglayers-300x224.jpg" alt="That's a lot of jackets" width="300" height="224" /><p class="wp-caption-text">That&#39;s a lot of jackets</p></div>
<p>As I sorted, I discovered that my husband (from here on I&#8217;ll call him M, for My husband) has two blue fleece vests, three black fleece jackets, two black windbreakers that I never see him wear, and a wind-blocking fleece jacket that he also doesn&#8217;t wear.  I put all of these on an &#8220;ask M&#8221; pile.  He has a down parka that he needs when he travels to colder climates, but doesn&#8217;t need much in San Francisco, so I hung it in the closet.</p>
<div id="attachment_281" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-281" title="pileofjackets3" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/pileofjackets3-300x224.jpg" alt="M's Jackets" width="300" height="224" /><p class="wp-caption-text">M&#39;s Jackets</p></div>
<p>As for my own outerwear, I had two fleece jackets, two fleece vests, both of which are a bit large on me, and two raincoats &#8212; an ultralight jacket and a heavier rain parka.  I&#8217;ve recently lost weight, so most of this clothing is too big.  I put the too-large fleece jacket in a give-away pile, and kept the one that fits.  I&#8217;m holding on to the raincoats until I can replace them with something that fits, and one of the vests fits well enough to be useful.  The other one I&#8217;m keeping as back-up gear, since it doesn&#8217;t take up that much space, and I sometimes go camping with newbies who don&#8217;t bring enough warm clothing.</p>
<div id="attachment_280" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-280 " title="morefleeces" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/morefleeces-300x224.jpg" alt="Jackets" width="300" height="224" /><p class="wp-caption-text">A&#39;s jackets</p></div>
<p>I put the &#8220;ask M&#8221; pile on a chair, and put my own stuff away.  The next major category was the dressy clothes that live in the closet:</p>
<div id="attachment_282" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 205px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-282 " title="dressyclothes" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/dressyclothes-195x300.jpg" alt="Long, dressy clothing" width="195" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Long, dressy clothing</p></div>
<p>The reason our dress clothes live in the entry way is that our home is a converted storefront. The bedroom is a loft, with closets along each side of the room, under the eves of the roof.  This provides ample storage space, with only one drawback: the ceiling in the closets comes down much too low to store long pieces of clothing such as dresses, robes, or long coats.  The only place to keep them is in the entryway closet, which is an odd place for long dresses, but such is life.</p>
<p>Sorting the dress clothes was a somewhat complicated task.  The easy parts were my husband&#8217;s best suit and his trench coat, which I hung in the closet.  The harder parts were my own clothes, because I had to try each of them on in order to decide whether they were worth keeping.  As I finished trying them on, I separated them into three categories: things to keep, things to sell, and things that could be altered to fit me.  Given the fiasco with the books, I&#8217;ve set a deadline for myself: anything I haven&#8217;t taken action on by November 15, I will give away.  In the mean time, I put them back in the closet.</p>
<p>This takes me to step 4: assessing the storage needs of my space.</p>
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		<title>Organizing an Entryway, Step 2: The Pre-Sort</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 16:32:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Addy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>This is the second post in my Organizing an Entryway series.  I&#8217;m breaking it down into steps that are as small as possible to prevent ADD overwhelm.</p>
<p>The second step in my organizing process is a quick pre-sort.  This is a quick way to get rid of two categories of stuff: things that don&#8217;t belong [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>This is the second post in my Organizing an Entryway series.  I&#8217;m breaking it down into steps that are as small as possible to prevent ADD overwhelm.</strong></p>
<p>The second step in my organizing process is a quick pre-sort.  This is a quick way to get rid of two categories of stuff: things that don&#8217;t belong in a space, and obvious DTPCA&#8217;s.  What&#8217;s a DTPCA?  With apologies to Dan Savage of Savage Love, DTPCA stands for &#8220;Ditch That Piece of Crap Already&#8221;, and it applies to any object that qualifies uncategorically as garbage.  DTPCAs include any item that is broken, that&#8217;s missing half its component parts, or things like excess shopping bags and shoeboxes.</p>
<p>A quick look at my entryway told me that there were several things in it that had homes elsewhere.  There were two suitcases that could be put away, and of course, the suitcases themselves contained things that one doesn&#8217;t generally store in one&#8217;s entryway.  The first one had a bunch of spices in it that I&#8217;d gotten on my trip, because I wanted to avoid paying the nearly 10% sales tax at the Penzey&#8217;s in the Bay Area&#8230; after buying them in the Twin Cities, I realized that <em>they&#8217;re food</em> and therefore not subject to sales tax.</p>
<div id="attachment_270" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-270" title="spices" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/spices-300x224.jpg" alt="Suitcase full of spices.  I don't actually cook in my entryway.  Silly chaos demon!" width="300" height="224" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Suitcase full of spices, even though I don&#39;t actually cook in my entryway.  Silly chaos demon!</p></div>
<p>The second suitcase had some t-shirts and socks in it that I could have been wearing this last month.</p>
<div id="attachment_271" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-271" title="contentsofluggage" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/contentsofluggage-300x224.jpg" alt="I was wondering where all my clothes went." width="300" height="224" /><p class="wp-caption-text">I was wondering where all my clothes went.</p></div>
<p>The first thing I did was to the clothes in the wash, and the spices in the kitchen.  Then I put the luggage away.  The enormous pile of bags and boxes next to the door are mostly DTPOCAs.  The bags turned out to be filled with recycling or with other plastic bags, and most of the boxes were useless.  I kept a few of them boxes to ship books.  The rest I recycled.</p>
<div id="attachment_265" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 261px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-265" title="pileofboxes" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/pileofboxes-251x300.jpg" alt="Hey, that's some very important cardboard!" width="251" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Ditch That Piece Of Crap Already</p></div>
<p>It can be tempting to hold onto boxes.  They look so useful, don&#8217;t they?  You can use them for shipping, for storage, you never know when they&#8217;ll come in handy, right?</p>
<p>Wrong.  Cardboard boxes are terrible for storage, because you can&#8217;t see what&#8217;s inside of them.  And very few boxes are actually useful for shipping.  If a box originally held shoes, or a computer, or a cell phone, the size and shape are going to be too odd to be really good for shipping anything; chances are, if you keep it, you won&#8217;t use it. Remember, whether you rent or own, you&#8217;re paying for the space you use to store those boxes.  Is it really worth it to occupy that space with pieces of cardboard?</p>
<p>Once I pre-sorted, my space looked much more manageable:</p>
<div id="attachment_272" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 234px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-272" title="boxesgone" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/boxesgone-224x300.jpg" alt="Ah, that's better!" width="224" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Ah, that&#39;s better!</p></div>
<p style="text-align: center;">I&#8217;ll leave you with an image of the worst DTPCA that I found in my entryway &#8212; a piece of stale, moldy flat bread, presumably from a some time over the summer.</p>
<div id="attachment_288" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-288 " title="deadbread" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/deadbread-300x224.jpg" alt="The fact that I found it in a bag from The Container Store is a nice bit of irony." width="300" height="224" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The fact that I found it in a bag from The Container Store is a nice bit of irony.</p></div>
<p>The next step is sorting, so stay tuned!</p>
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		<title>Organizing My Entryway, Part 1: Taking Stock of the Situation</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 01:32:10 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Addy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I stared work on my entryway today.  I&#8217;ll be posting a series of entries on how I&#8217;m going about it, step by step, so you can see how a Real Live Person with ADD starts and finishes an organizing project.</p>
<p>I basically use Julie Morgenstern&#8217;s five-step SPACE system (&#8220;SPACE&#8221; stands for Sort, Purge, Assign a home, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>I stared work on my entryway today.  I&#8217;ll be posting a series of entries on how I&#8217;m going about it, step by step, so you can see how a Real Live Person with ADD starts and finishes an organizing project.</strong></p>
<p>I basically use Julie Morgenstern&#8217;s five-step SPACE system (&#8220;SPACE&#8221; stands for Sort, Purge, Assign a home, Containerize, Equalize).If you&#8217;ve never organized a space before, it can be hard to know exactly where to start, so I&#8217;m spelling it everything I do to the last detail.</p>
<p>To begin with, here is my entryway:</p>
<div id="attachment_263" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 234px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-263" title="My Entryway" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/myentryway-224x300.jpg" alt="My Entryway" width="224" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">My Entryway</p></div>
<p>And here it is from another angle.</p>
<div id="attachment_262" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-262" title="my entryway, alternate view" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/entryway-alternate-view-300x224.jpg" alt="Nice, isn't it?" width="300" height="224" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Nice, isn&#39;t it?</p></div>
<p>It&#8217;s a pretty hellish mess.  There are suitcases from a trip I took in September, a grocery bag filled with gods-know-what, and stuff spilling out of the closet.</p>
<p>The sad thing is that I organized the entryway in May.  I found paperwork dating from 2006, but I cleaned it all out.  So why didn&#8217;t it stick?</p>
<p>My mistake was that I didn&#8217;t finish the job.  I neglected to sort and purge anything in the coat closet.  To make matters worse, I moved an unwanted bookcase into the entryway, and used it as a staging ground to sell some used books.  I failed to put a deadline on that task, so I never finished the job &#8212; and six months later, half the books are still in my entryway, taking up valuable real estate.  There&#8217;s also a pile of donations that I never donated, and also some just plain trash:</p>
<div id="attachment_265" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 261px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-265" title="pileofboxes" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/pileofboxes-251x300.jpg" alt="Hey, that's some very important cardboard!" width="251" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Hey, that&#39;s some very important cardboard!</p></div>
<p>Before I start organizing a space, I do some &#8220;pre-organizing&#8221;.  That is, I take a thorough look at the space.  I ask myself the following questions: how do I use this space?  how would I <em>like</em> to use this space?  what&#8217;s keeping me from using it in the way that I like?  what&#8217;s working about the space as it is?  what&#8217;s not working?</p>
<p>To answer my own questions, I <strong><em>currently</em></strong> use my entryway as a dumping ground.  Bags, briefcases, and backpacks tend to get dumped on the floor when my husband or I walk in the door.  Because it&#8217;s closed off from the living area, the entryway also houses the litter box; and since the mail comes through a slot in the door every day, it also has a recycling bin for junk mail.</p>
<p>I <strong><em>would like</em></strong> my entryway to be a place where I can store coats, hats, and shoes, and find them when I need them.  I would also like it to be more welcoming to guests.</p>
<p><em><strong>What&#8217;s working</strong></em> about the space is a shoe rack where our shoes can usually be found, and a rack of coat pegs mounted to one wall.  <strong><em>What&#8217;s not working</em></strong> about the space is <strong>the bookcase</strong>, which blocks a second rack of coat pegs, significantly cutting down on storage; <strong>the closet,</strong> which is vomiting forth its contents like a hungover college freshling; <strong>the coat tree</strong>, which is also overflowing; <strong>we have no good place</strong> to store hats or cold weather accessories; and the fact that<strong> the cat box </strong>is the first thing guests see when they enter my home.</p>
<p>Having taken stock of my entryway, I am ready to proceed to the next step: pre-sorting, which I will cover in a new post.</p>
<h5><span style="color: #800080;">Hmmm, maybe this why my friends never come over &#8230;</span></h5>
<div id="attachment_267" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 234px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-267" title="litterbox" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/litterbox-224x300.jpg" alt="The charming view, upon entering my humble abode." width="224" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The charming view, upon entering my humble abode.</p></div>
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		<title>How to Avoid Shopping Overwhelm</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 07 Oct 2009 22:36:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Addy</dc:creator>
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I&#8217;ll give you a hint: make someone else do the work
<p style="text-align: justify;">I detest shopping.  I especially detest shopping in malls.  They seem deliberately designed to be mazes, made all the more confusing by the fact that each one of them, nationwide, has all the same stores only in different configurations.  I [...]]]></description>
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<h5 style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: #800080;">I&#8217;ll give you a hint: make someone else do the work</span></h5>
<p style="text-align: justify;">I detest shopping.  I especially detest shopping in malls.  They seem deliberately designed to be mazes, made all the more confusing by the fact that each one of them, nationwide, <em>has all the same stores</em> only in different configurations.  I actually have a recurring nightmare in which I am trapped in a mall, unable to find the exit.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">When I finally find the store I&#8217;m looking for, it&#8217;s no better.  I get overwhelmed by hundreds of product options, narrowing those down to something I don&#8217;t hate, finding something in my size, and <em>then</em> finding something at actually fits.*</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">So I was not looking forward to shopping for bras last night.  And yet, it had to be done.  I haven&#8217;t been fitted properly since high school, and my size has fluctuated quite a bit since then; for several years I <em>think</em> I was wearing the right size, but it was probably a fluke, and I&#8217;ve lost weight since that time.  The last time I bought bras was at TJ Maxx about a month ago, and they do not fit well <em>at all</em>.  I decided I needed professional help.</p>
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<p style="text-align: justify;">Most of the women I know, whether or not they can afford to shop at Nordstrom for anything else, have told me that it&#8217;s THE place to get fitted for bras.  And so I gritted my teeth and headed to Nordstrom &#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">&#8230; and had a surprisingly stress-free experience.  I found someone to help me, she took me into the dressing room, and measured me.  Turns out my band size was one size smaller than I thought, but my cup size isn&#8217;t, hence my ill-fitting bras.  She asked me what sorts of bras I needed &#8212; every day wear, fashion colors, evening wear &#8212; and then went and got me some.  She explained how they&#8217;re supposed to fit and how to tell if they don&#8217;t.  Based on how those worked out, she went and got me a few others.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">All I had to do was stay in the fitting room and try things on.  I didn&#8217;t have to bump into other customers, I didn&#8217;t have to sort through racks of bras trying to find the numbers and letters that correspond to my size, I didn&#8217;t have to wander the department to find what I was looking for.  Granted, I still got sick of bras after awhile, and it was still shopping so it still sucked.  But it was the least stressful clothes shopping experience I have ever had.</p>
<p style="text-align: justify;">*If you&#8217;re a guy, you&#8217;ll just have to trust me that these ARE NEVER THE SAME THING.</p>
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		<title>How to Use Gmail Calendar</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 02 Oct 2009 21:49:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Addy</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>In case you&#8217;re not up with the gmail these days,  it&#8217;s a free, web-based e-mail system with unlimited storage that is run by Google.  One of gmail&#8217;s many (many) features is its calendar, which you can tweak to your heart&#8217;s content.  You can create as many calendars as you want &#8212; for home and work, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In case you&#8217;re not up with the gmail these days,  it&#8217;s a free, web-based e-mail system with unlimited storage that is run by Google.  One of gmail&#8217;s many (many) features is its calendar, which you can tweak to your heart&#8217;s content.  You can create as many calendars as you want &#8212; for home and work, for each of your kids &#8212; and choose a different color for each of them.  You can also set as many reminders as you like in the form of e-mail, text message, and pop-up, as far ahead of the event as you would like.</p>
<p>Using gmail calendar is pretty self-explanatory &#8212; just click on the calendar link in your gmail inbox:</p>
<div id="attachment_150" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 752px"><img class="size-full wp-image-150 " title="gmail calendar link" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/gmail-calendar-link.jpg" alt="The &quot;calendar&quot; feature to the right of &quot;gmail&quot; in the top left corner of your browser.  I have highlighted it for your convenience.  Don't say I never did anything for you!" width="742" height="169" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The &quot;calendar&quot; feature to the right of &quot;gmail&quot; in the top left corner of your browser.  I have highlighted it for your convenience.  Don&#39;t say I never did anything for you.</p></div><br />
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When you click on the calendar link, you&#8217;ll be taken to a page that looks like this:</p>
<p><div id="attachment_151" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 1034px"><img class="size-large wp-image-151 " title="Gmail blank calendar" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/Gmail-blank-calendar-1024x416.jpg" alt="Gmail blank calendar" width="768" height="312" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Click on a time slot to create an event.  Go on... all the cool kids are doing it.</p></div>
<p>To create an event, just click on a day and a time.  You can create an event quickly by typing it into the dialogue box that appears.  If you want to create an repeating event, click &#8220;edit&#8221; in the dialogue box.  You&#8217;ll be taken to a page that looks like this:</p>
<div id="attachment_153" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 707px"><img class="size-full wp-image-153 " title="gmail calendar event edit" src="http://www.wellorderedchaos.addaptabilities.com/wp-content/uploads/gmail-calendar-event-edit.jpg" alt="gmail calendar event edit" width="697" height="497" /><p class="wp-caption-text">The ability to set SMS reminders is one of the most powerful tools in in gmail calendar.  Customize them to keep from getting overwhelmed.</p></div>
<p>If you have a recurring event, click the &#8220;does not repeat&#8221; tool bar.  You&#8217;ll be given options to have the event repeat daily, weekly, monthy, MWF, TTh, what have you.  If you&#8217;d like to set reminders for yourself, customize the e-mail, SMS, and pop-up settings.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve found that the reminders work best when I have the one-day e-mail reminders set only for events for which I have to leave the house.  If I need to be somewhere at a certain time, I set an SMS reminder for an hour or 90 minutes in advance, depending on how far I have to travel.</p>
<p>For events that just require task-switching &#8212; that is, where I remain at the same location, but need to start doing something else &#8212; I found that the 24-hour e-mail notice was actually counterproductive.   I found that I simply ignored an e-mail telling me that I was supposed to, say, start doing research 24 hours from now.  What was worse, is that I found I started to ignore all e-mail calendar reminders.  I&#8217;ve found that SMS and pop-ups, set at 30 minutes and 10 minutes in advance, to be the most helpful for task-switching.  They provide me with a visual and aural reminder that it&#8217;s time to wind down what I&#8217;m doing and to go work on something else.</p>
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